面对爱情,兔子怕自己笨手笨脚
十二生肖中,兔年出生的人很善良,对人也很友好。因为兔子人自己会有相当自卑的心理,自然总是想办法彼此好,试着让自己看起来更受欢迎。兔种特征的兔子人在友谊和爱情面前也是如此。在爱情面前,兔子人总是感到自卑,认为自己不好。所以兔人会害怕自己在感情上什么都做不好,总是笨手笨脚,觉得对方会嫌弃自己。
面对爱情,兔子害怕对方家庭的反对
因为兔子本身就会充满自卑感,总是认为自己不够好,如果此时会有外部阻力,那么它会让兔子更不敢面对爱。在这段关系中,兔子最害怕的是对方的父母不喜欢自己,不能接受自己,意他们在一起。这肯定会让兔人原本不坚定的心有更大的动摇,也会觉得自己配不上对方。
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龟兔赛跑
Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster. They decided to settle the argument with a race. They agreed on a route and started off the race.
从前,有一只乌龟和一只兔子在互相争辩谁跑得快。他们决定来一场比赛分高下,选定了路线,就此起跑。The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time. Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing the race.
兔子带头冲出,奔驰了一阵子,眼看它已遥遥领先乌龟,心想,它可以在树下坐一会儿,放一下,然后再继续比赛。
He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep. The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ.
兔子很快地在树下就睡着了,而一路上笨手笨脚走来的乌龟则超越过它,不一会儿完成比赛,成为货真价实的冠军。
The hare woke up and realised that he'd lost the race. The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race.等兔子一觉醒来,才发觉它输了。这个故事给我们的启示是:缓慢且持续的人会赢得比赛。
This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with.
这是从小伴随我们长大的龟兔赛跑故事的版本。
But then recently, someone told me a more interesting version of this story. It continues.
但最近有人告诉了我一个更有趣的版本。故事这么继续下去。
The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some Defect Prevention (Root Cause Analysis). He realised that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax. 兔子当然因输了比赛而倍感失望,为此他做了些缺失预防工作(根本原因解析)。它很清楚,失败是因它太有信心,大意,以及散漫。
If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him. So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.
如果它不要自认一切都是理所当然的,乌龟是不可能打败它的。因此,它单挑乌龟再来另一场比赛,而乌龟也同意。
This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles.这次,兔子全力以赴,从头到尾,一口气跑完,领先乌龟好几公里。
The moral of the story? Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady.
则故事的有什么启示?动作快且前后一致的人将可胜过缓慢且持续的人。
If you have two people in your organisation, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organisational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap.
如果在你的工作单位有俩个人,一个缓慢,按部就班,且可靠,另一个则是动作快,且办事还算牢靠,那么动作快且牢靠的人会在组织中一直往上爬,升迁的速度比那缓慢且按部就班办事的人快。
It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.
缓慢且持续固然很好,但动作快且牢靠则更胜一筹。
But the story doesn't end here. The tortoise did some thinking this time, and realised that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way it was currently formatted.
这故事还没完没了。这下轮到乌龟要好好检讨,它很清楚,照目前的比赛方法,它不可能击败兔子。
He thought for a while, and then challenged the hare to another race, but on a slightly different route.它想了一会儿,然后单挑兔子再来另一场比赛,但是是在另一条稍许不同的路线上。
The hare agreed. They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitment to be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until he came to a broad river.
兔子同意,然后俩者同时出发。为了确保自己立下的承诺-从头到尾要一直快速前进,兔子飞驰而出,极速奔跑,直到碰到一条宽阔的河流。
The finishing line was a couple of kilometers on the other side of the river.
而比赛的终点就在几公里外的河对面。
The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoise trundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continued walking and finished the race.
兔子呆坐在那里,一时不知怎么办。这时候,乌龟却一路跚跚而来,撩入河里,游到对岸,继续爬行,完成比赛。
The moral of the story? First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency.这故事的有什么启示?首先,辨识出你的核心竞争力,然后改变游戏场所以适应(发挥)你的核心竞争力。
In an organisation, if you are a good speaker, make sure you create opportunities to give presentations that enable the senior management to notice you.
在你的工作单位,如果你是一个能言善道的人,一定要想法创造机会,好好表现自己,以便让高峰注意到你。
If your strength is analysis, make sure you do some sort of research, make a report and send it upstairs. Working to your strengths will not only get you noticed but will also create opportunities for growth and advancement.
如果你的优势是从事分析工作,那么你一定要做一些研究,写一个报告,然后呈送上楼。依着自己的优势(专长)来工作,不仅会让上头的人注意到你,也会创造成长和进步的机会。
The story still hasn't ended.故事还没结束。
The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends and they did some thinking together. Both realised that the last race could have been run much better.
这下子,兔子和乌龟成了惺惺相惜的好朋友。它们一起检讨,俩个都很清楚,在上一次的比赛中,它们可以表现得更好。
So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.
所以,他们决定再赛一场,但这次是同对合作。
They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank. There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back.
它们一起出发,这次可是兔子扛着乌龟,直到河边。在那里,乌龟接手,背着兔子过河。。
On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together. They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier.
到了河对岸,兔子再次扛着乌龟,俩个一起抵达终点。比起前次,它们都感受到一种更大的成就感。
The moral of the story? It's good to be individually brilliant and to have strong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team and harness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below par because there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly and someone else does well.这故事的有什么启示?个人表现优异与拥有坚强的核心竞争力固然不错,但除非你能在一个团对内(与别人)同心协力,并掌控彼此间的核心竞争力,否则你的表现将永远在标准之下,因为总有一些状况下,你是技不如人,而别人却干得蛮好的。
Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with the relevant core competency for a situation take leadership.团队合作主要就是有关情境(权变)领导这挡事,让具备处理某一情境能力(核心竞争力)的人当家做主。
There are more lessons to be learnt from this story.从这故事,我们可以学到更多
Note that neither the hare nor the tortoise gave up after failures. The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure.
我们了解,在遭逢失败后,兔子和乌龟都没有就此放弃。兔子决定更拼,并且投入更多的努力。
The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard as he could. In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate to work harder and put in more effort.
在尽了全力之后,乌龟则选择改变策略。在人的一生中,当失败临头时,有时我们需更加努力。
Sometimes it is appropriate to change strategy and try something different. And sometimes it is appropriate to do both.有时则需改变策略,尝试不同的抉择。有时候,俩者都要一起来。
The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop competing against a rival and instead start competing against the situation, we perform far better.
兔子和乌龟也学到了最关键的一课。当我们不再与竞争对手较力,而开始逐鹿某一情境时,我们会表现得更好。
When Roberto Goizueta took over as CEO of Coca-Cola in the 1980s, he was faced with intense competition from Pepsi that was eating into Coke's growth.
1980年代,当古兹维塔接掌可口可乐执行长时,他面对的是百事可乐的激烈竞争,可口可乐的市场成长正被它吞食掉。
His executives were Pepsi-focussed and intent on increasing market share 0.1 per cent a time.
古兹维塔手下的那些管理者,把焦点全灌注在百事可乐身上,一心一意只想着一次增长百分之零点一的市场占有率。
Goizueta decided to stop competing against Pepsi and instead compete against the situation of 0.1 per cent growth.
古兹维塔决定停止与百事可乐的竞争,而改与百分之零点一的成长此一情境角逐。
He asked his executives what was the average fluid intake of an American per day? The answer was 14 ounces. What was Coke's share of that? Two ounces. Goizueta said Coke needed a larger share of that market.
他问起美国人一天的平均液态食品消耗量为多少?答案是十四盎斯。可口可乐在其中有多少?答案是俩盎斯。古兹维塔说,可口可乐需要在那块市场做大占有率。
The competition wasn't Pepsi. It was the water, tea, coffee, milk and fruit juices that went into the remaining 12 ounces. The public should reach for a Coke whenever they felt like drinking something.我们的竞争对象不是百事可乐,要是占掉市场剩余十二盎司的水、茶、咖啡、牛奶及果汁。当大家想要喝一点什么时,应该是去找可口可乐。
To this end, Coke put up vending machines at every street corner. Sales took a quantum jump and Pepsi has never quite caught up since.
为达此目的,可口可乐在每一街头摆上贩卖机,销售量因此节节上升,百事可乐从此再也追赶不上。
To sum up, the story of the hare and tortoise teaches us many things.
Chief among them are that fast and consistent will always beat slow and steady; work to your competencies; pooling resources and working as a team will always beat individual performers; never give up when faced with failure; and finally, compete against the situation. Not against a rival.
结论:龟兔赛跑的故事启发我们良多。最重要的是:动作快且前后一致的人总是胜过缓慢且持续的人;依着自己的优势(专长)来工作;结合所有的资源且团队合作的人,总是打败单打独斗者;面对失败时,绝不轻言放弃;最后,与某一情境竞争,而不是限定某对手。
兔子
兔子是常见的小动物。它的祖先是分布于欧洲、非洲等地的野生穴兔,现在在世界各地均有饲养,有很多品种,比较优良的有比利时兔、细毛兔、安哥拉兔等。
兔子的体毛为白色、褐色等。耳朵较长,能够灵活地向声源(声音方向)转动,听觉灵敏,而且由于布满毛细血管,竖立时可以散热,紧贴在脊背上时则可以保温。眼睛很大,位于头的两侧,有较大范围的视野,但眼睛间的距离太大,要靠左右移动面部才能看清物体。鼻孔的鼻翼能随呼吸节律开合,嗅觉也很灵敏。嘴的上唇正中裂开成两片,故有“崩嘴”或“豁嘴”之称。两个嘴角向左右生长着辐射状有触觉功能的触须。上颌具有两对前后重迭的门齿,没有犬齿。它的颈短但转动自如,躯干伸屈灵活。四肢强劲,腿肌发达而有力,前腿较短,具5趾,后腿较长,肌肉、筋腱发达强大,具4趾,脚下的毛多而蓬松,适于跳跃、奔跑迅速,疾跑时矫健神速,有如离弦之箭。在奔跑时还能突然止步,急转弯或跑回头路以摆脱追击。它的尾短,仅有5厘米左右,略呈圆形,故有“兔子的尾巴长不了”的说法。
兔的循环系统发达,脉搏、呼吸较快(脉搏:成年兔每分钟为80一100次,幼兔为100—160次;呼吸:成年免每分钟为20—40次,幼兔40一60次),新陈代谢旺盛;消化系统中,有发达的盲肠和大肠。
家兔是由野兔经长期驯化而来的,虽然被人喂养的历史亦已长久,但尚承袭着其祖先的不少习性。它们胆子很小,性情温和。善于挖掘洞穴。以草本植物及树木的嫩枝、嫩叶等为食,还吃由它的盲肠富集了大量维生素和蛋白质,由胶膜裹着的软粪便,以充分利用其中比普通粪便中多4—5倍的维生素和蛋白质等营养物质。3—5月发情时变得异常活跃,通常每胎产4—12仔。6—8个月达到性成熟。寿命为10年。
迄今,家兔仍保留其祖先白天潜伏洞中(或暗处),夜间四处活动觅食的习性。故家免在白天除喂食时间外,表观安静、闭目睡眠,而一到了晚上,则十分活跃,采食频繁。家兔在晚上所吃的草料和水,约占总量的75%。所以。在喂养日程中,晚上要给足草料和水,日间尽量保持环境安静。
兔子胆小怕惊而善跑,当有突然响动就会马上戒备或迅速逃跑。对突然的喧闹或嗅、视到陌生人、狗、猫、蛇、鼠等出现,都会惊慌不已,会发出响亮的嘭嘭(啪啪)跺脚(顿足)、奔跑和撞笼,以求潜逃躲避敌害。所以兔舍要保持安静,避免生人或其敌害动物的进入。
打洞穴居是兔子沿袭其祖先的本能之作。其“居室”是个一穴多洞口的,故有“狡兔有三穴”。在野生条件下,打洞穴居,具有防避敌害,保护自身,繁衍后代等重要意义。
兔子的门齿是终生生长的恒齿,必须啃咬硬物借以磨灭(磨短),才能避免过长,保持长短适中。为此,要定时向笼舍中投放一些可食的硬物如竹子、树枝之类,以满足需要。
家兔的抗病力较差,在潮湿不洁的环境中,容易罹蔓疾病而致成莫大损失,尤以幼兔为甚。所以应遵循干燥清洁的管理原则,规划笼舍和环境应注意干燥清洁,并实施卫生防疫管理。另外,兔较为耐寒而不耐热,当气温超过30℃时,成年兔就减食或废食,母兔容易流产、减奶或不给仔兔喂奶等,还会引起疾病流行。故在炎热期间,应注意防暑降温。
首先 温度 一定要暖和 实行宁可让他热的出汗 也不能让他打哆嗦!当然 兔子不会出汗 反正我没见过兔子出汗!
食物 一定要新鲜干净! 洗洗再喂他!~` 经常拾掇拾掇他的笼子!
兔子的二十六种表情“语言”有声音类和动作类之分,而声音类“语言”则包括以下几种:
(1)咕咕叫:通常是对主人的行为或对另一只兔子感到不满。咕咕叫代表兔子很不满意,生气中。就如兔子不喜欢人家去抱他碰他,他就会发出咕咕叫。如困你不再停止那行为,就可能会被咬噜!
(2)喷气声:喷气声代表兔子觉得某些东西或某些行动令他感到受威胁。如果是你的行动令兔子感到受威胁,当你再不停止那行动,就可能会被咬。
(3)尖叫声:兔子的尖叫和人类一样,通常是代表害怕或者痛楚。如果突然听到兔子尖叫,主人立刻要多注意,因为可能兔子是受了伤。
(4)磨牙声
a.大声磨牙:代表兔子感到疼痛,最好带兔子看一下兽医师了。
b.轻轻磨牙:代表兔子很满足很高兴。当兔子轻力发生磨牙声,如果你伸手摸兔子下巴,可以感到臼齿在磨擦。这时候通常兔子的眼睛会在半开合状态。
(5)咬牙声:当兔子发出格格的咬牙声,是代表痛楚。这时候兔子一般会弯起身而坐,耳朵向后贴紧身体。
(6)呜呜叫:像猫咪一样,兔子满足时也会呜呜叫。不过兔子和猫咪不同之处是猫咪会用喉去发声,但兔子是用牙齿去发声。
(7)嘶嘶叫:兔子通常是对另一只兔子才会发出嘶嘶的叫声。嘶嘶的叫声是代表一种反击的警告,主要是是告诉另一只兔子别过来的意思,否则他会进行攻击。
(8)发情叫声:发情的叫声不同于咕咕叫。发情的叫声是低低沉沉而有规律的叫声。一般公兔在追逐母兔时会发出此叫声。绝育可以减少这一类发情的行为,不过不可以完全清除这一种发情行为。绝育后的公兔仍然会追逐母兔,把母兔擒住。
[诗歌]呵,兔子——诗经的吟颂*五章
[诗歌]
呵,兔子
——诗经的吟颂
我梦见自己惊醒了自己
——题记
兼葭
清净的回头就是清净日
白猿坐在右侧,街道上的危崖
跌落鸟鸣,我看见橱窗
看见小心翼翼的木头
曾经对岸啼哭,喝着啤酒
不穿背心,沿紫色光
飘流
我的毛发,编织了太多隐忍的情节
夜晚掠过谁的青春,谁
一定珍藏了水中的灯笼
星星走过酒吧街
相思鸟的脖项
柔软游移,传说上了岸
掂起足蹼,积聚在
表达的端口
白猿的女人
拒绝接纳今夜风尘
某个立交桥凌空逃逸了
奔号着,掠走那丛白露下的瘦男人
我们敬奉的神的预言,口吐白沫
无人围观,鸟
渐渐苏醒
朝北飞去
伯兮
伯兮,伯兮
栽种泉水的木桶
被光秃秃的风湿病贴上补丁
由于饥渴的脸被洗去了
雨和三足鸟
在超市的低洼处汇集
飞翔的同时,又寂然不动
伯兮,伯兮
我不断地收割城市的毛发
那拣拾破烂的老人
踏上我的镰刀
我采摘泉水的果壳
递给卖花女,于是
唱歌的盲者开口时
我潮湿的窗户就重见光明
伯兮,伯兮
我如水流一般漂泊,和疾病一起
和旅馆一起,栖落在三个方向
活着,死去,或都不是
一个孤儿幸运的三条路
所有丢失了故乡的河
都已认领在
我的名下
淇奥
因为有你埋藏其中
华丽,安静,如同钟楼
在这座时间之城里
卧着结疤
站起来颤栗
如果呼喊
会惊动上帝的羊群和草原里的魔鬼
我在城市里养马,驯豹
它们已停止衰老
把深巷里的古屋和神的谶言
驱赶在一起
寂静地停在果壳的边缘发芽
我走失的鹰,屏住呼吸
去风中开花
那个写诗的男人
带领一群天使,潜入黑夜
为你擦净
光线里的灰尘
兔爰
我梦见自己忍耐着自己,奔跑的欲望
腐朽扬沙,被一条路
在平原上丢弃,呵,兔子
即便那条河与船夫纠缠不休
冬眠完的灵魂
依旧会尖叫,饥饿,饱满
以产卵围猎逆流而上的
爱情,呵,兔子
我的长发女人没有离去
也没有到达,她的梦颜色淡了
那座城市从浅绿到绯红,半掩门扉
从未预感的幽会,点亮谁的
瞳孔,呵,兔子
途中我看见孤独的歌手,带着童年
与她并肩而坐,我的泪水沿着江水流向
北方,什么样的句子如残疾
在诗里破碎了,我蜷于她的心头
不忍倾听,呵,兔子
我梦见自己惊醒了自己,窃贼
盗走了梦中的乐器,他领她去看——
一首歌正在梦见
另一首歌,一条鱼正吻着一条鱼
一稞草正啃一棵草
呵,兔子
子衿
错过一次呼吸,就错过了
来自天庭的布施
从来不曾正确过的苏醒,在屋子
的第32页上表情单一
病猫转身,走进悬念的门里
思念,没有在得胜沙的
步行街上窒息吗,我的女孩
你走出我的壳
走进我血液的红皮肤里
我俩的小猫还没有出生,甚至
滚烫的梦还不曾受孕
疾病在那个八音盒中旋转
你错过了被救护的时机
我收紧爪子,为你的私语
膨胀都市的传奇。17路公交车
把困倦的爱情和流言的鞋子
布施出身体
伸出你的右手道别,我的女子
你穿透往事如神一样离开
我枕住你荒芜的左爪
入眠,等待绝症
毛茸茸的痊愈
千里兔歌谣
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